I mean, “when fans fight, nobody wins” IS the motto, but in this case, I think the key would be to find things you can both enjoy together.
Like this maybe?
(I hope I didn’t, like, ruin a bet with my non-answer, but Bolin is not mine to give!)
-Da7e-
ADDITION!
rainingsugar says: “my bf is like a real life replica of Bolin. personality wise and physically <3”
BOLIN LIVES! (but is dating rainingsugar)